“We are more apt to feel depressed by the perpetually smiling individual than the one who is honestly sad. If … More
Tag: Self-Esteem
Thinking in Black and White: Sometimes, You Can Have Your Cake and Eat it, Too
We often find ourselves thinking in all or nothing terms, meaning that, at times, we erroneously believe that things have … More
In Defense of Shyness and Doubt
Self-esteem is a concept that I have my issues with, predominantly due to the fact that it’s externally dependent; but, … More
The Need for Self-Compassion
The idea of self-esteem gained prominence in the 80’s; it was this great need to get children to feel good … More
It’s the Relationship that Heals
So many of the qualities of the work of psychotherapy fascinate me: the inherent intimacy, its progress, the intricacies of … More
Why Self-Esteem is Toxic: The Case for its Abolition
Self-esteem has always been a prominent concept throughout our lives. We were taught that we needed it to be happy, … More
How Can I Stop Feeling Worthless? (Revised)
Beauty, status, intelligence, respect, and power: the aspects of life which we covet the most, but the aspects of life … More
Barriers to Love and Intimacy
Have you ever found yourself in the midst of a passionate love affair, wanting to spend each minute and every … More
How to Boost Your Confidence: The Only One Who Can Control How You Feel about You is You
The fear of rejection is prevalent among many men, especially those living in New York City, particularly because men are … More
Poverty and Mental Illness: How an Impoverished Childhood Almost Took Away My Life (w/ Updated Linked Articles)
“I believe that, as long as there is plenty, poverty is evil. Government belongs wherever evil needs an adversary and … More
