Self-Esteem and Sex Addiction: How Men Use Pornography and Womanizing to Feel Good about Themselves

I frequently write blog posts about the effects of our beliefs on our thoughts, feelings, and actions, exploring the links … More

My Teacher

Several years ago, former NY Times war-correspondent, Chris Hedges, wrote a beautiful article on Reverend Coleman Brown, an undergraduate professor … More

Man’s Search for Intimacy

In 1946, existential psychiatrist, Viktor Frankl, published a book which drastically altered the course of psychotherapy; he titled it Man’s Search … More

Shattering the Myth of Confidence: Why the Self-Assured Man You’re Looking for Doesn’t Exist

“Fake it til you make it” is a cliche that’s repeated ad-nauseum, one that most of us latch onto as … More

Open Forum – Ask Me Any Questions Related to Psychotherapy, Mental Health, and/or Relationship Difficulties Part 2

I wanted to create a follow-up forum to the prior open forum to continue to give you guys the opportunity … More

Barriers to Love and Intimacy

Have you ever found yourself in the midst of a passionate love affair, wanting to spend each minute and every … More

Toxic Masculinity: Why We’re All to Blame

The notion of toxic masculinity has perpetuated like wildfire in recent years. After multiple mass shootings, all perpetrated by men, … More

Self-Worth Increases Relationship Standards

It seems as though each cultural blog and website you go on deals with issues in relationships, in particular difficulties … More

My Search for Honesty

For all of us who’ve been down the road of dating, heartbreak is a common feeling and being ghosted is … More

Difficulties in Dating

I often mention that it’s so perplexing to me to live in NYC, which is full of all sorts of … More