“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that … More
Tag: Dating
Needing to be Loved: Why It’s Okay to Accept Your Basic Human Necessity
Most of the clients I see struggle with intimacy; they have what are called attachment difficulties. Some of them are … More
Ghosting: Doing Away with Online Dating
Just when you think you understand people, you realize how little you actually know; that, in a nutshell, is my … More
Self-Worth Increases Relationship Standards
It seems as though each cultural blog and website you go on deals with issues in relationships, in particular difficulties … More
Shattering the Myth of Confidence: Why the Self-Assured Man You’re Looking for Doesn’t Exist and Why That’s Okay
“Fake it til you make it” is a cliche that’s repeated ad-nauseum, one that most of us latch onto as … More
Living in My Imagination: How Trauma Fosters an Unquenchable Desire for Idealized Love
Throughout our quests for the perfect mate, we frequently find ourselves fantasizing about what that mate would be like: we … More
How to Become Confident and Get Laid: The Self-Help Industry’s Perpetuation of The Disingenuous Man
I consistently find myself falling into the trap of evaluating other men based on the usual, and outdated, concept of … More
Fostering Self-Acceptance: The Only One Who Can Control How You Feel about You is You
The fear of rejection is prevalent among many men, especially those living in New York City, particularly because men are … More
Thinking in Black and White: Sometimes, You Can Have Your Cake and Eat it, Too
We often find ourselves thinking in all or nothing terms, meaning that, at times, we erroneously believe that things have … More
My Search for Honesty
For all of us who’ve been down the road of dating, heartbreak is a common feeling and being ghosted is … More
