The fear of rejection is prevalent among many men, especially those living in New York City, particularly because men are … More
Tag: Dating
How to Become Confident and Get Laid: The Self-Help Industry’s Perpetuation of The Disingenuous Man
I consistently find myself falling into the trap of evaluating other men based on the usual, and outdated, concept of … More
Thinking in Black and White: Sometimes, You Can Have Your Cake and Eat it, Too
We often find ourselves thinking in all or nothing terms, meaning that, at times, we erroneously believe that things have … More
Living in My Imagination: How Trauma Fosters an Unquenchable Desire for Idealized Love
Throughout our quests for the perfect mate, we frequently find ourselves fantasizing about what that mate would be like: we … More
Shattering the Myth of Confidence: Why the Self-Assured Man You’re Looking for Doesn’t Exist
“Fake it til you make it” is a cliche that’s repeated ad-nauseum, one that most of us latch onto as … More
Self-Worth Increases Relationship Standards
It seems as though each cultural blog and website you go on deals with issues in relationships, in particular difficulties … More
My Search for Honesty
For all of us who’ve been down the road of dating, heartbreak is a common feeling and being ghosted is … More
Difficulties in Dating
I often mention that it’s so perplexing to me to live in NYC, which is full of all sorts of … More
