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This blog explores, and helps others navigate through, issues which are pertinent to all human beings, from death to self-esteem. Ideas are medicine!

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Author: Leon Garber, LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselor/Psychotherapist, based in Brooklyn and New York, NY, with specialties in Existential Psychotherapy, Trauma Therapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.

Displaced Anger: How We Can Stop Blaming Others for Our Negative Thoughts and Emotions

If maturity is anything, it’s a mastery of one’s emotions. The other day, someone told me a story about how … More

Anger, CBT, Mental Health, Mental Illness, Philosophy, Psychology, Self-Esteem

Hero Worship As Self-Hatred: How Admiration Can Reveal Your Self-Esteem

“I wish people would love everybody else the way they love me. It would be a better world.” -Muhammed Ali … More

Existentialism, Growth, Mental Health, Mental Illness, Personal Development, Philosophy, Psychology, Self-Esteem

Why Psychotherapy Can’t, and Shouldn’t, Make You Happy

“While the daimonic (your dark emotions and impulses) cannot be said to be evil in itself, it confronts us with … More

Anxiety, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Depression, Happiness, Mental Health, Mental Illness, Psychology, Psychotherapy

Self-Sabotage in Dating: How We Erect the Barriers that Keep Love At Bay

A few years ago, I began a relationship with a girl who seemed interested in dating me, but asked if … More

Anxiety, Dating, Depression, Love, Mental Health, Psychology, Romance

You’re Both a Success and a Failure: How You Can Begin to Unlearn Self-Blame and Abuse

Life is often viewed as a series of attempts and successes and failures, which we allow to define us throughout … More

CBT, Depression, Existentialism, Mental Health, Mental Illness, Philosophy, Psychology, Psychotherapy

The Power of Forgiveness in Stoic Philosophy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

The Stoic philosopher, Seneca, wrote: “The spirit ought to be brought up for examination daily… I pass the whole day … More

CBT, Depression, Mental Health, Mental Illness, Philosophy, Podcast, Psychology, Stoicism

The Jaws of Certainty: How Our Low Self-Esteem Pushes Love Away

Evidence can be tricky. We often think of science as a purely objective endeavor, supported by the analysis of an … More

Anxiety, Depression, Love, Mental Health, Mental Illness, Perfectionism, Rejection, Self-Esteem, Social Anxiety

Facing the Internal Mirror of COVID-19: Why We Shouldn’t Be Afraid of Self-Isolation

Existential dread is defined as: the fear of the groundlessness beneath us. In essence, it’s the fear of freedom, of … More

Anxiety, Coronavirus, COVID-19, Depression, Mental Health, Mental Illness, Psychology, Self-Discovery

Addicted to ‘Wow’: Inside of the Mind of a Perfectionist

We think of addiction as entailing some sort of substance, whether a drug, alcohol, or even a video game that … More

Anxiety, Depression, Fame, Growth, Mental Health, Mental Illness, Perfectionism, Social Media, Success

Bursting the Bubble of Inadequacy: Shifting Our Distorted Beliefs to Love Ourselves

We fear our thoughts more so than reality. The cognitive model of psychotherapy posits that our ideas about ourselves, others, … More

Anxiety, Depression, Growth, Mental Health, Mental Illness, Personal Development, Psychology, Self-Compassion, Self-Esteem

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